Let’s face it, the early stages of beard growth are tough. The itch. The patchiness. The awkward comments. You wake up one morning and think, Is this really worth it? But here’s the truth—every epic beard begins with a not-so-epic phase. And if you can power through those first few weeks, you’ll be rewarded with a look that’s bold, confident, and uniquely you.

Whether you're aiming for a short, stylish beard or a full Viking mane, here’s how to survive—and thrive—in the early days of your beard journey from the ones who know best, the Better Man Beard Team.

Embrace the Awkward Phase

There’s no sugarcoating it: your beard probably won’t look amazing right away. Growth can be patchy, uneven, and itchy. But this is completely normal. Every guy’s beard grows at a different pace, and genetics plays a big role.

The key is to stop obsessing over perfection in week two. This isn’t the final form—it’s the foundation. Think of it like building a house: the framing stage isn’t pretty, but it’s essential.

Mindset is everything. Instead of seeing early growth as “messy,” see it as progress. Each day is a step closer to your beard goals.

Take Care of Your Skin and Beard from Day One

Many guys make the mistake of thinking they don’t need beard products until the beard is “full.” Wrong. Early beard care is crucial for healthy growth and comfort. Better Man Beard products are carefully crafted and extensively tested using all-natural ingredients. The bottom line is when it comes to your face you don't want to be using harsh chemicals and mass produced products.

Here’s our starter kit, the all in purchase to help you through the early stages and keep your beard strong and attractive for years to come:

• Beard oil: A proprietary mix of Argan Oil, Jojoba Oil, Grapeseed Oil, Castor Oil, Vitamin E Oil, and Lavender and Rosemary Essential Oils. This blend keeps your skin moisturized, fights itch, and softens sharp new hairs. Rosemary and lavender help your beard smell great, and keep the skin and hair follicles underneath it healthy and productive.
• Beard Balm: We perfected the ideal blend of Organic Coconut Oil, Shea Butter, Castor Oil, Beeswax, Vitamin E, and Lavender and Rosemary Essential Oils. Smells great and gently cleanses without stripping oils.
• Beard comb: Sweet and smokey sandalwood teeth untangle the strands of your beard while stimulating blood flow and distributing your beard product evenly from skin to ends.

Starting this routine early not only helps you feel better—it tells your brain, “This is serious. We’re doing this.”

Be Patient, Consistent, and Stay the Course

Here’s the deal: most guys give up too early. They hit week three, feel scruffy and itchy, and reach for the razor. Don’t do it. Real progress takes 4–6 weeks—and most beards don’t even start to fill in properly until week 8 or beyond. Use Better Man Beard products to fight the initial itch.

Set a Goal

No shaving or trimming for one month, minimum. Take weekly selfies if you need motivation—growth is subtle day-to-day but powerful over time.

Ignore the Naysayers and Your Inner Critic

You might hear things like, “Are you growing a beard or just forgot to shave?” Laugh it off. People love to comment—but this is your journey, not theirs. Even your own inner voice might say, “This looks bad... maybe I should just give up.” Here’s your reminder: growth is always uncomfortable at first—whether it’s a beard, a goal, or a habit.

The Beard is Worth It

That awkward, itchy, unsure first phase? It’s just a test. And when you pass it, you gain more than facial hair—you gain confidence, discipline, and a style that’s uniquely your own. With the attractive scents and great skin protection our all natural products provide, everyone close to you will start to prefer the beard too.

So stay strong. Stay moisturized. And remember: every great beard starts with a guy who didn’t quit. Your beard journey isn’t about how fast it grows—it’s about how committed you are to growing it. Keep going. You’ve got this.

Conclusion

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